Sunday, June 25, 2017

Song of Why ...

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Why do people love?
                           'Cause it hurts to be alone.

And why do people care?
                         Because your pain looks like my own.

Then why don't people help?
                  'Cause sometimes it's just too far to go.

And why do people hate?
'Cause you can't love what you don't know.

                                 This life is fast and delicate,
                                     so we flinch and dodge to deal with it—
                                      we put our faith in shields and capes.
                                       And we want to believe there's some escape:
                                      to heaven, or something permanent;
                                   to a perfect and honest government;
                                to a safe and accepting society.
     
     What else do you need to know from me?

Why do people laugh?
                   Because we can't hold on to joy—
             It pours out and warms our friends,
… the same way that fear destroys.

And why are we afraid?
            Because we want to stay alive
       and, sometimes as we cling, forget
the reason we survive.

                                 All living things, the large and slight,
                                    they reach for something—plants for light,
                                      and bugs for leaves, and birds for twigs.
                                       These acts are small, but lives are big:
                                       for every goose is too a flock,
                                      and ant too a hive, and hollyhock
                                   too a field of flowers and grass. All kinds,
                               they carry each other: 

     I'm yours; you're mine.

Then why do people fight?
                             'Cause we get lost inside our selves
                           and pretend we're heroic victims
                who've earned more than living well.

       So we fight to prove we're best:
            most right, most strong, most good.
                 And then we take that space, that prize,
                       that praise—and hide the blood.

                                 So people will tell you histories,
                                    full of wars that made men enemies,
                                      and they'll say “This was the better side”
                                       where fewer were cut down and traumatized.
                                       But these made-up lines hide bandages:
                                     how we've blended traditions and languages,
                                  how the best any battle has ever done
                            was show us life is precious, and all are one.

So why do people hug?
                          Just to feel each other's breathing.

And why do you watch my eyes?
                                                      'Cause one day, I'll be leaving.

                                                           And on the day I close my doors,
                                                      I'll have nothing here inside me
                                           except echoes of the breaths I've felt—


                                  and your shining eyes—

                        to guide me.

7 comments:

  1. Humanity is a road of a thousand paths with only one end. Human life is filled with wrong turns, confusions, and missteps that all lead us down our own unique ways. The choices we make define us, but the obstacles we face and the moments that we struggle are awkward to the innocent eye. The speaker repeatedly asks the questions of why the people are the way they are because it all seems so strange and terrifying. “Why do we love”, “Why do we hate”, and “Why are we afraid” are all questions without any answers other than “Because it’s human nature”. Success, war, and passion are all simply fabrications of society and we allow ourselves to make our way upon the new paths they make for us. Yet, in the end, we all meet at the same destination. All the roads we walked being only worthwhile to ourselves, they insure nothing after we make it to where we all go. The only things we will remember are the “echoes of the breaths” we’ve felt we’ve walked with along the way.

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    1. "Humanity is a road of a thousand paths with only one end."
      I disagree. There are a thousand ways to die: people rage and resist, people go peacefully, people take themselves prematurely ... it's reductive and dismissive to look at death as an undifferentiated, procedural moment.

      "Success, war, and passion are all simply fabrications of society"
      Passion is a fabrication of society? Put a human being in a forest by themselves and they will find passion. Again, this is reductive and dismissive--we are not simply rolling on the tracks "they" make for us: we are "they," and those paths are extensions of ourselves.

      "Yet, in the end, we all meet at the same destination."
      Again, I wholeheartedly disagree: Destination - the place to which someone or something is going. You get to choose where your body, heart, and mind are pointed. That's where they'll be on "the day [you] close [your] doors."

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  2. This poem resonates with me because it reflects my own train of thought when I attempt to understand the behavior of people around me. I feel like the teenage years are the most formative of years partly because it’s at this age that you start to realize how the world really works. It wasn’t until I was fifteen and sixteen and seventeen that I realized just how capable humans are of irrational hate, and I can thank our current government administration for showing me these horrors for the first time. As I heard about neo-nazi and white supremacist groups on the news, I realized that their destructive hate is only fueled by fear as they’re scared of the things they don’t know. As I watch the constant back and forth bickering and schemes plotted between two political parties, I see the dangers of limited perspective. It is true that everyone always thinks they’re “heroic victims” and they refuse to acknowledge the fact that their enemy feels the exact same way. Each side thinks they’re objectively right and that they objectively deserve more, and this foolish thinking makes any conflict resolution impossible. Both sides want to “prove they’re best” and they’re willing to do anything for it, including “hide the blood,” and in doing so they become absurd hypocrites as they commit crimes just as bad or even worse than that which they accuse their enemy of.

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    1. How would you describe the tone of this poem?
      (specifically on a scale from Condemning--------to Understanding)

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  3. I found this poem very interesting because it contains questions about emotions that are difficult to answer in words, but are associated with actions that vary from showing affection to being violent. The speaker is seeking answers that differ from person to person, as everyone laughs for different reasons or hates for different reasons. The emotions and actions that are spoken about are initiated by different situations, depending on who is responding to the question and what the circumstance is that the person would feel that way. The answers to the questions about hate, fighting, and being afraid are longer than the answers about laughing, caring, and loving other people. This corresponds to how much violence and hatred there is in the world. Society as a whole has become divided between races, genders, religions, ethnicities, and so many more ways that make people different that are out of our control. We are all born differently so that each of us are unique, but there is so much judgement and prejudice for people being who they are that there is not much love left in the world. Hate is currently dominating compassion for one another in a way that it is hard to find the reasons why we show affection to one another. The lack of love for people who are different than oneself is the reason why there is chaos in the world and it will only improve once people accept others for who they are.

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    1. "The answers to the questions about hate, fighting, and being afraid are longer than the answers about laughing, caring, and loving other people. This corresponds to how much violence and hatred there is in the world." I disagree with this causal attribution. Maybe it takes a little longer to explain why people hate than why they love...but I don't know that you can put them on a scale and decide which feeling outweighs the other.

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  4. As someone who spends her time overthinking and asking herself all the “why” questions, this poem speaks to my constant need to please people and understand how each person loves. The simple questions like why do we love and why we don’t seems like simple answers. As humans we have created this society in which we pretend things are perfect, we want them to be so bad. We try to create an honest government, a system to protect and serve, faith and religion to convince ourselves there is somethig better for us waiting if we do all the right things. The relationship between laughter and fear is ironic because they both function the same way but inflict two completely different emotions. Laughter is comfort, i can relate to this because i always try to smile and laugh when im comfortable. Fear is the uncontrollable emotion where i become afraid and roots from wanting to stay alive. So if we are able to separate these two emotions the question is why aren’t things perfect they way we want them to be? It’s the fact that we are so focused on making things perfect that we mess up along the way, we forget to enjoy the laughter and end in fear. Then our competitive side kicks in, to make everyone believe that our ives are still perfect which converts ourselves into our worst enemy. This breaks us down, but nothing is more human than touch. Something as simple as breathing, a hug, looking into someone’s eyes. These are the things that guide us out of the black hole we have created into the light. The collage has a picture of a couple kids which represents the pure love of being a mother, seeing your children smile, and knowing you brought life into the world. As imperfect being a mother is, the love is stronger than ever. Something as pure as life itself, the tree of life, beauty of flowers. The moldy has a reminiscent tone, regrets of not appreciating life in it’s purest form the way we are meant to.

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